Kinky King Latex

Kinky King Latex has some unique latex bondage gear (check out the "gimp sack"). They're U.S.-based and very reasonably priced.

Their gear can be made in a variety of heavier-gauge thicknesses, including 1.2 mm. Imagine your entire torso encased in a rubber straitjacket as thick as a belt... YUM.

Axsmar

About Link Library: I have amassed a huge collection of kinky links, and I've decided to dig into my personal bookmark folders and share the wealth. It'll be mostly suppliers of fetish gear and clothing, but also some lifestyle groups and educational resources. Enjoy!

I found this fantasy-inducing metal bondage gear site, Axsmar (courtesy of SexNShoes.com). Love the arm traps, the simple and elegant spreader bars, and the unique cross cuffs.

Travel Update

I will be in San Francisco from November 18th to November 21st, then Los Angeles from November 22nd to November 28th.

I will be taking sessions in both cities, with priority given to established clients. My time in SF is scarce, but I will be catching up with some Mistress friends and possibly touring dungeons, so stay tuned for details.

The playspace I'll be using in Los Angeles is one of the most beautifully equipped, private spaces in the metro area, and was featured in DDI magazine's "Domina Files" series. It has three rooms, two St. Andrew's crosses, a sling, bondage table with cage base, Fetters spanking bench, and more.

Be sure to book early for time and equipment/wardrobe requests. Those of you who have been quietly following me for years: this is your opportunity to serve me in person!

Until then, my lovelies...

RACK vs. SSC

The play party is in full swing. You're standing by a bondage cross, watching a handcuffed sub take thirteen strokes of the cane, when a tall, dark-haired woman strides up to you.

"You look new. What is your name?" she asks in a silken voice.

Once you've both introduced yourselves, she leads you to a quiet corner to talk. She's interested in playing with you, and you'd love to submit, but you're nervous about disappointing her. She asks if you have experience with ________ , and you don't, but you're curious, and you want to try. So you lie and say, "Oh, once or twice... it was a while ago... it'll be fine."

If she proceeds without making sure you know all the risks, are you truly consenting? If you withhold information from her, is she truly consenting?

Consent is a fundamental part of the kinky credo, hence RACK and SSC (Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink, and Safe, Sane, and Consensual). BDSM is powerful stuff, and to get the most out of play, we have to respect it, ourselves, and each other.

Play smart, have fun!

Tell Lita Ford and The Stockroom Your Fantasy

The Stockroom is having a Fantasy Fiction Essay Contest. The theme is "Wicked Wonderland", and the top prize is a guitar signed by Lita Ford. Runners-up get prizes from the Stockroom.

My no-holds-barred playground would have lots of attachment points for chains and ropes, plenty of rubber, good drainage... and a central courtyard suitable for exhibitions. The rest of the luscious details are for me to know, and you to feverishly imagine.

How would you describe your kinky dream in five hundred words or less?

BDSM: Ripe for Reality Television

This is a great idea.

I was approached about being the subject of a reality show a few years ago. I declined, for the obvious privacy reasons, but I think it would be enormous fun to be part of a competitive domination reality show!

I'm already thinking of the viewing parties a show of this kind would inspire.

Hollywood Kink

Woohoo!... ahem. Pardon me. I was tickled by this entry on a gay porn star's blog (via Fleshbot). It seems that he was called upon for the ultimate "Dear Penthouse": a twisted little forced-bi humiliation scene starring a famous Hollywood face.

"Onward Christian Soldiers", indeed.